Healing of a Violated SpiritXulon Press, 2008 - 452 sider In Healing of a Violated Spirit, Shelley G. Jones writes of severed relationships, sexual violation, and the devastating affects of spiritual abuse. Through the uniqueness of the author's writing style, the reader is brought into her once emotionally and spiritually confused existence - then journeys with Shelley and her family through the recovery process. From her experiences as an abuse survivor, and their experiences as husband and wife marriage survivors, she shares a wealth of insights, understanding, and learning. Shelley freely speaks out - offering hope and encouragement that emotional and spiritual wholeness is possible after one's spirit has been violated - that marriages can survive - and for those who see God through wounded eyes, that reconciliation is possible. Family members, counselors, and ministers - anyone desiring to understand and help a survivor of undeserved victimization will benefit from reading Healing of a Violated Spirit. http: //www.healthewoundedspirit.com Shelley G. Jones is a wife, mother, and grandmother. Shelley is also a survivor of childhood sexual and spiritual abuse. After fourteen years of marriage, Shelley found herself on the brink of an emotional breakdown. Hidden beneath her anger, depression, and exhaustion were long forgotten moments of sexual abuse and spiritual unworthiness. Her husband, William, was the man in the house, the man in the bed - the undeserving target of her rage in the present. Throughout the recovery process, Shelley desperately wanted William to see beneath her anger, to understand what she struggled to comprehend, and to love her when she felt her life held little value. William longed to see her emotionally and sexuallyhealthy. But his efforts triggered just the opposite - her emotional fury. Tensions, misunderstandings, and resentments created an ever-widening barrier between them. Yet their marriage not only survived, it thrives. |
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Triggering of Memories Reconnecting to Reality | 33 |
Remembering | 101 |
Beneath Anger is Fear | 109 |
Massive Knot of Tension | 113 |
Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome | 117 |
Emotional Triggers | 125 |
Do You Think Me Crazy? | 131 |
Counseling | 137 |
Farm Tractor Miracle | 281 |
Perfectionism Claustrophobia and Panic Attacks | 283 |
Verbalizing Perfectionism Claustrophobia and Panic Attacks | 287 |
Unseen Filth | 297 |
Its All about Relationships | 301 |
Note to the Reader | 303 |
God Doesnt Hurt Little Children | 305 |
Generational Dysfunction | 309 |
Anhedonia Inability to Experience Pleasure | 141 |
Dont Want to Die | 145 |
No One Understands Me | 153 |
Stress I Carry Punishes No One but Myself | 157 |
Cycles and Conflicts | 163 |
Spiritual Abuse | 167 |
Note to the Reader | 169 |
Toxic Religion vs Grace Filled Relationship | 171 |
One Massive Fear | 175 |
Neediness | 181 |
All That I Hold Back Explodes | 189 |
LoveDove | 193 |
Journaling and Freedoms Gained | 197 |
Failure to Communicate | 205 |
Battle between Evil and Good | 209 |
Selfhelp Books | 215 |
Total Trust | 219 |
Discouragement and Depression | 223 |
Feel So Unfulfilled | 227 |
Celebration of Life | 235 |
Marriage Out of Balance | 239 |
Impacting Moments of Love | 243 |
Dead Cat | 247 |
What You Focus on Grows Stronger | 251 |
Note to the Reader | 253 |
Steps in Freedom to Pray Feel and Stand Firm | 255 |
The Touch of Loving Hands | 261 |
Will I Ever be Free to Surrender All? | 265 |
Hurtful Words Edifying Words | 269 |
The Workforce Places of Identifying Values | 271 |
Negative Cycles with Strong Emotional Triggers | 275 |
Communicating with Stories | 313 |
Changing the Dynamics of the Relationship | 317 |
Hiding Places | 325 |
The Words to die | 329 |
Freeing the Spirit Within | 333 |
Sadness Hidden Behind the Wall | 335 |
Duck Taping the Relationship | 339 |
Journal Notes Tell the Story | 347 |
Sexual Emotional Responses | 351 |
Enjoy Him While You Can | 355 |
From Childhood Abandonment to New Freedoms | 359 |
The Gift of Maxie the Cat | 363 |
Release Closure Going Forward | 367 |
Note to the Reader | 369 |
InterPersonal IntraPhysic Responses | 371 |
Freedom From Guilt and Shame | 375 |
Need to be Believed | 379 |
Freedom to Confront the Minister of My Past | 381 |
Must I Trust You with My Soul Before You Ease Me of My Pain | 387 |
Confusion Becomes Clarity | 391 |
Surrendering | 395 |
Processing the Freeing Moment | 399 |
Reclaiming My Childhood | 401 |
The Words to seduce | 407 |
Selfblame is a Piece of the Puzzle | 411 |
Freedom from Toxic Shame | 415 |
Confronting the Scene that Haunts | 423 |
The Words Im sorry | 429 |
Expect a Miracle | 435 |
Understanding and Helping a Survivor | 445 |
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