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It is certainly the proper education we should give ourselves, to be prepared for the ill events and accidents we are to meet with in a life sentenced to be a scene of sorrow : but instead of this expectation, we soften ourselves with prospects of constant delight, and destroy in our minds the seeds of fortitude and virtue, which should support us in hours of anguish. The constant pursuit of pleasure has in it something insolent and improper for our being. There is a pretty sober liveliness in the ode of Horace to Delius, where he tells him, loud mirth, or immoderate sorrow, inequality of behaviour either in prosperity or adversity, are alike ungraceful in man that is born to die. Moderation in both circumstances is peculiar to generous minds. Men of that sort ever taste the gratifications of health, and all other advantages of life, as if they were liable to part with them, and, when bereft of them, resign them with a greatness of mind which shews they know their value and duration. The contempt of pleasure is, a certain preparatory for the contempt of pain. Without this the mind is, as it were, taken suddenly by an unforeseen event; but he that has always, during health and prosperity, been abstinent in his satisfactions, enjoys, in the worst of difficulties, the reflexion, that his anguish is not aggravated with the comparison of past pleasures which upbraid his present condition. Túlly tells us a story after Pompey, which gives us a good taste of the pleasant manner the men of wit and philosophy had in old times, of alleviating the distresses of life by the force of reason and philosophy. Pompey, when he came to Rhodes, had a curiosity to visit the famous philosopher Possidonius; but finding him in his sick bed, he bewailed the misfortune that he should not hear a discourse from him :*But you may,' answered Possidonius; and immediately entered into the point of stoical philosophy, which says, pain is not an evil. During the discourse, upon every puncture he felt from his distemper, he smiled and cried out, Pain, Pain, be as impertinent and troublesome as you please, I shall never own that thou art an evil.'
• MR. SPECTATOR,
• Having seen in several of your papers a concern for the honour of the clergy, and their doing every thing as becomes their character, and particularly performing the public service with a due zeal and devotion; I am the more encouraged to lay before them, by your means, several expressions used by some of them in their prayers before. sermon, which I am not well satisfied' in. As their giving some titles and epithets to great men, which are indeed due to them in their several ranks and stations, but not properly used, I think, in our pray
Is it not contradiction to say, illustrious, right reverend, and right honourable poor sinners? These distinctions are suited only to our state bere, and have no place in heaven: we see they are omitted in the liturgy; which, I think, the clergy should take for their pattern in ther own forms of devotion, *
* In the original publication of this paper in folio, there was the following passage, left out when the papers were printed in volumes in 1712.
[Another expression which I take to be improper, is this, the whole race of mankind,' when they pray for all men; for race signifies lineage or descent; and if the race of mankind may be used for the present generation, (though, I think, not very fitly) the whole race takes in all from the beginning to the end of the world. I don't remember to have met with that cxpression, in their sense, any where but in the old version of Psalm xiv. which those men, I suppose, have but little esteem for, And some, when they have prayed for all schools and
There is another expression which I would not mention, but that I have heard it several times before a learned congregation, to bring in the last petition of the prayer in these words, “ O let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak but this once ;" as if there was no difference between Abraham's interceding for Sodom, for which he had no warrant, as we can find, and our asking those things which we are required to pray for; they would therefore have much more reason to fear his anger if they did not make such petitions to him. There is another pretty fancy. When a young man has a mind to let us know who gave him his scarf, he speaks a parenthesis to the Almighty. 6 Bless, as I am in duty bound to pray, the right honourable the countess ;' is not that as much as to say, “ Bless her, for thou knowest I am her chaplain ?"
Your humble servant, T.
? nurseries of good learning and true religion, especially the two universities, add these words, Grant that from them, and all other places dedicated to thy worship and service, may come forth such persons, &c. But what do they mean by all other places? It seems to me, that this is either a tautology, as being the same with all schools and nurseries before expressed, or else it runs too far;. for there are several places dedicated to the divine service, which cannot properly be intended here.]
Spectator in folio.
Na 313. THURSDAY, FEB. 28, 1711-12.
Exigile ut mores teneros seu pollice ducat,
Juv. Sat. vii. 237.
I SHALL give the following letter no other recommendation than by telling my readers that it comes from the same hand with that of last Thursday.
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. I Send you, according to my promise, some farther thoughts on the education of youth, in which I intended to discuss that famous question, “ Whether the education at a public school, or under a private tutor, is to be preferred ?"
“As some of the greatest men in most ages have been of
very different opinions in this matter, I shall give a short account of what I think may be best urged on both sides, and afterwards leave every person to determine for himself.
• It is certain from Suetonius, that the Romans thought the education of their children a business properly belonging to the parents themselves; and Plutarch, in the Life of Marcus Cato, tells us, that as soon as his son was capable of learning, Cato would suffer nobody to teach him but himself, though he had a servant named Chilo, who was an excellent grammarian, and who taught a great many other youths.
• On the contrary, the Greeks seemed more inclined to public schools and seminaries.
• A private education promises, in the first place, virtue and good breeding; a public school, manly assurance, and an early knowledge in the ways
of the world.
• Mr. Locke, in his celebrated treatise of education, confesses, that there are inconveniences to be feared on both sides : “ If,” says he, “ I keep my son at home, he is in danger of becoming my young master; if I send him abroad, it is scarce possible to keep him from the reigning contagion of rudeness and vice. He will perhaps be more innocent at home, but more ignorant of the world, and more sheepish when he comes abroad.” However, as this learned author asserts, that virtue is much more difficult to be obtained than knowledge of the world, and that vice is more stubborn, as well as a more dangerous fault than sheepishness, he is altogether for a private education ; and the more so, because he does not see why a youth, with right management, might not attain the same assurance in his father's house, ås at a public school. To this end, he advises parents to accustom their sons to whatever strange faces come to the house : to take them with them when they visit their neighbours, and to engage them in conversation with men of parts and breeding.
It may be objected to this method, that conversation is not the only thing necessary; but that unless it be a conversation with such as are in some measure their equals in parts and
years, there can be no room for emulation, contention, and several of the most lively passions of the mind; which, without being sometimes moved, by these means, may possibly contract a dulness and insensibility